"I'll walk with you on the sidewalk"
We celebrated our 11 year anniversary yesterday. I told Mike that since it was our 11th anniversary I'd walk on the sidewalk with him. He responded, "Well, since it's been 11 years, I won't take it personally if you choose not to."
We get to go for walks in the mornings together about twice a week. The other days he goes running and then if Piper and I are walking (sometimes I do weight training at home) then he catches up with us after his run and walks a bit more with us. I always walk in the street and Mike pushes the stroller on the sidewalk. I didn't notice it at first but then I realized that I rarely walk on the sidewalk with them. I mentioned it to Mike and he said, "Yeah, I know. It's because you like your personal space. You don't want to touch me when we walk." It's true! Those sidewalks are so narrow and I hate walking and bumping arms, especially here in the humid weather. Even at 8:00 AM we come home drenched in sweat and that is just gross. I don't like my own sweat, let alone his. But it's not even the sweat. I just like my space. Mike has always been more touchy feely than me.
11 years into this and we both know these things about each other. I love that. I love that I can walk on the street and Mike will know I still love him but that I need my space. I love that after living with someone for so long you begin to understand those little nuances about your relationship that make it good, bad, unique, interesting, etc.
I realize that Mike and I are so different from one another but we work so well together. In all the important aspects of our relationship we are the same--our religiosity, our focus on the family, our financial goals. The differences make up for the things we each lack individually and make us so strong and happy together.
I am so thankful to be married to him.
This was one month before Laila died and our lives changed forever. We look so young and peaceful |
Three years later and we are still smiling. We've grown so much together and are stronger than ever |
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